Bye-Bye Binky
Binkers, binky, buppy, paci, pluggerdoodle, nubby or even wubby…all pet names from lovers of the pacifier.
There are multiple reasons why parents rank pacifiers as one of the must-have items on their baby registry. Amongst other things, a pacifier can help soothe a fussy baby, provide a distraction (such as during shots, medical tests or other procedures) and help a baby fall asleep. It is also believed that pacifiers reduce the risk for sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS). Research is finding that babies put to sleep with a pacifier were 20 times less likely to die of SIDS than were babies who slept without pacifiers. It is speculated that pacifiers may keep babies from rolling onto their faces or may keep their tongues forward and away from their airways.
While there are many good points to pacifier use, there are also some drawbacks a parent should consider. Pacifier use could interfere with feeding during infancy, your child could become dependent on them, or it can increase the risk of ear infections. Another drawback is that pacifiers can affect the growth and development of the teeth and mouth. Prolonged pacifier use can cause changes in the shape of the roof of the mouth, prevent proper growth of the mouth and create problems with tooth alignment.
Big question…when is it time to toss the pacifier? Pediatric dentists recommend limiting pacifier time once a child is 2 and eliminating it by age 4 to avoid dental problems. Beyond that, there are no hard-and-fast rules about when and how to say “bye-bye binky.”
If you are ready to wean your baby or toddler off the pacifier, here are a few tips to help you along the way.
Plan Ahead. It is often easier to wean a baby than a toddler. For toddlers it can be a very big event. Plan ahead to make sure the weaning doesn’t coincide with other big events such a potty-training, the birth of a new sibling or moving to a new home.
Be Patient. Chances are there’s going to be some fussing and sleeplessness during the weaning process. That is very normal. Being patient will help you ride out the storm.
Be Firm. Toddlers are smart! If they believe their actions (crying, screaming, tantrum-throwing, etc.) will cause you to change the course that is exactly what they will do. They will cry louder and longer and the tantrum-throwing will get worse. Be firm, consistent and take heart. Before you know it you will have cleared this hurdle and will be ready to face the next great adventure coming your way.
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